As a professional dominatrix I hold myself to 3 basic principles for all my sessions. Firstly I will only do things I have confidence can be done safely. Secondly I respect your limitations whether physical or mental. Third I respect your personal needs for privacy and discretion. If you are an exhibitionist or prefer to be more public about your submission you must tell me. By default I keep things confidential.
In addition, I use safewords in all of my sessions, practicing safe sane and consensual
domination so your limits will be respected. You will not pick some silly
sounding safeword. The only safeword you will use with me is "Tap". If
I have you gagged or otherwise unable to speak you may tap the ground
or other object nearby. My reason behind doing this is much different
from what you might be used to where a woman temporarily breaks out of
a Mistress role that she is playing. With me, using a safe word is the
same as tapping out in Ju-Jitsu or other types of grappling. In my sessions
tapping is a deeper form of submission and rather than a break from your
submission. Tapping shows me that I have done my job well by taking you
to the edge of what you can physically and physiologically handle. It is also an absolute necessity so you can indicate simple physical concerns such as nausea or dizziness or in the unlikely event of an emergency such as a heart attack.